It began with a picture of a young man at a rock concert; a young man I assume so overtaken with the music he was listening to that he had no choice but to whip out his garden hose and start peeing into his own mouth as a self-soothing strategy for all the feelings he was experiencing.
Bob needs you, and you need him.
My own father tried to teach me how to play soccer, but gave up when he realized that my body type was meant for video games, not sports played on grassy fields.
Tell him you and yours would be happy to fly somewhere to get together with them.