I skipped the co-ed spa pools but did use the hot tubs in the ladies area.
My questions are, what should I do to go from vanilla to birthday cake? I really, really hate going down on women.
Not my favorite, and no real 'american' fall-back choices.
I am married and monogamous, and I get massages for stress relief, although I prefer male therapists both for the hand strength and the added titillation.